Earned Wisdom! For Accomplished Leaders

#73: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! With Jessie Gabriel

Ever wonder why women with impressive careers still fantasize about being rescued? Even successful female executives sometimes harbor this secret hope that someone else will handle the heavy lifting of financial security.

Tracy interviews Jessie Gabriel, founder of All Places and champion for women's capital ownership. Jessie is a corporate lawyer turned advocate who's on a mission to change how financial power is distributed.

It's not about capability. It's about the stories we tell ourselves about money, power, and who gets to control both.

Stop waiting for someone else to build the financial world you want to see. Every dollar you spend is a vote. Every investment decision is a choice about whose vision gets funded.

In this episode, Tracy explores:

• Why less than 1% of $100 trillion is controlled by women
• How financial insecurity creates adult money shame
• The hidden patterns behind "proving you're not poor"
• Why every purchase is a power move
• How systemic exclusion perpetuates inequality

"Don't think I'm poor. Don't think I'm poor. That's what was driving my behavior—even when I was making more money than my parents ever had." ~ Jessie Gabriel

#72: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! With Keri Blair

Imagine easily unlocking new levels of confidence to embody the essence of who you are. Feeling gorgeous in your own skin could open doors to greater fulfillment and impact!

Tracy chats with personal stylist and image consultant Keri Blair. With over 20 years experience styling high-profile executives and clients, Keri shares her journey from sales to fashion, highlighting how personal style impacts confidence and success. 

• Identify the 3-5 key adjectives that capture your authentic personal brand
• Curate a wardrobe that radiates those qualities through your presence
• Leverage the first impression to attract what you want
• Boost energy for relationships, and goals!

"When you look in the mirror and you know you look beautiful that day, you're going to nail it. And if you look in the mirror and you go, oh, okay, well, this is all I got today, you're not going to nail it." ~ Keri Blair

#71: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! with Jodie Kelley

Do you find yourself apologizing for what you don't know rather than confidently showcasing what you do? Tracy sits down with Jodie Kelley, CEO of the Electronic Transactions Association, who brings over 25 years of experience navigating leadership roles in male-dominated industries.

As women, we're often conditioned to focus on the boxes we don't tick instead of the ones we do. This unconscious pattern creates invisible barriers that hold us back more effectively than any glass ceiling.

In this revealing conversation, Jodie shares how her non-linear career path led to unexpected success and the crucial mindset shifts that separate those who break through from those who stay stuck. Her story proves that following what brings you joy can lead to more fulfillment than following a prescribed path.

In this episode, Tracy explores:

• Why women apologize when men would simply showcase confidence
• How following your passion creates more authentic career success
• The unconscious biases affecting how female leaders are perceived
• Why being "relentlessly confident" is essential for women leaders
• How internal self-belief trumps external reception

"If you are doing your homework, really throwing yourself into your job in a positive way and delivering, that matters. And if you bring with it that confidence in yourself, there is definitely a path. It's not that there is no glass ceiling, but there is a way to get to where you want to be." ~ Jodie Kelley

#70: What Politics Work for Women?

Do you feel safe in a system that wasn't designed for you? When women are an afterthought in political structures, what does that mean for your rights today?

As Tracy digs into the history of women in American politics, she uncovers uncomfortable truths about how women have been systematically excluded from foundational documents and political parties. Comfort in this system is an illusion—one that could evaporate faster than you think.

In this episode, Tracy explores:

• Women as property for thousands of years and our absence from the Constitution
• Pioneering female politicians who fought against exclusion
• Why women's rights remain vulnerable without Constitutional protection
• Current threats to female representation and voting rights
• How women leaders can increase political participation

"Wherever you're not speaking out, you feel protected. Wherever you feel that if you take a step in a different direction, that's too scary, that's where you feel protected. But you're not really protected. You aren't because you're not in the Constitution." ~ Tracy Crossley

#69: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! with Heather Box

Join us, as Tracy speaks with Heather Box, co-founder of the Million Person Project, about the art of storytelling as an act of love, realness, and courage. Together, learn about Heather as a leader and what made her decide to start her project. She also explains why knowing your narrative makes you powerful. 

What You’ll Learn:

• The importance of knowing your narrative
• Heather's professional journey–you can do what you love!
• She also provides what crafting a narrative can do for you.

"Your story is not about what happened to you or about what you did. It's about who you've chosen to be given that." ~ Heather Box

#68: The Tea Party that Sparked a Revolution

Women have been fighting for equality for centuries—so why are we still battling for basic rights? In this episode, Tracy dives into the hard truth about systemic patriarchy, the barriers that keep women from true equity, and why the fight is far from over. From the Seneca Falls Convention to today’s stalled Equal Rights Amendment, we break down what’s really standing in the way of progress.

 

The system thrives on division, but real change happens when we come together. If you’re tired of playing by the old rules, this conversation will challenge you to rethink power, privilege, and what it takes to create lasting change.

 

Key Takeaways:

• Why the system is designed to keep women in a fight they shouldn't have to wage
• The overlooked history of women’s rights and what’s still at stake
• How pay gaps, representation, and autonomy are deliberately controlled
• Why unity—not division—is the key to shifting the system
• The actions you can take to push for real change

"The fight for equality was never about asking for permission—it’s about taking back what should have never been denied." ~ Tracy Crossley

#67: The Houses on Our Block: A Lesson in Privilege & Division

What keeps us divided? In this deeply personal episode, Tracy reflects on her childhood, systemic inequality, and the invisible forces that pit us against one another. From racism and privilege to patriarchy’s grip on society, she explores how these systems create division and how true leadership means confronting them head-on.

This isn’t about blame—it’s about understanding. What happens when we stop accepting the status quo and start questioning the narratives we’ve been taught? Tracy unpacks the ways power structures are designed to keep us separate and the courage it takes to dismantle them.

What You’ll Learn:

• How patriarchy thrives on division and hierarchy
• The connection between privilege, racism, and gender inequality
• Why unity is the biggest threat to oppressive systems
• How personal empowerment leads to collective change

“Prejudice doesn’t come from confidence—it comes from insecurity. People who feel whole don’t need to diminish others.” — Tracy Crossley

#66: Does the Patriarchal System Help?

Patriarchy gets tossed around a lot.

The system was made by men for men who wanted to hold onto their possessions.

It has been this way for thousands of years.  We’ve been conditioned to believe success means fitting into a structure that wasn’t made for women. 

If it actually worked, why are so many people burned out, stressed, and still fighting for a seat at the table? In this episode of Earned Wisdom, Tracy Crossley breaks down how the patriarchal system keeps women stuck and how to change it.

It’s not about fighting harder—it’s about seeing the game for what it is and choosing a different way. You don’t need permission to redefine success, leadership, or power. You just need to stop believing in a system that will never work for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Does anyone really benefit from the system?
• Patriarchal structures fuel burnout, competition, and emotional suppression
• Women are the way forward applying new meaning to success and leadership 
• Your power to create a movement for yourself and generations to come.

"The system doesn’t hold you back—believing in it does." ~ Tracy Crossley

#65: Earned Wisdom for Female Leaders! Breaking the Patriarchy’s Grip on Women’s Rights

Women make up more than half the population, yet we’re still not in the U.S. Constitution, and power remains out of reach for many. In this episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, a financial expert, author, and advocate for economic empowerment, expose the hidden forces keeping women from true equality—systemic barriers, cultural conditioning, and the illusion of progress.

This isn’t about blame; it’s about action. If we want real change, we have to see the system for what it is and decide what we’re going to do about it.

Key Takeaways:

• Why women still don’t have full constitutional rights
• How internalized patriarchy keeps women competing, not uniting
• The real reason power remains male-dominated
• What it takes to drive real, lasting change

“Unless we keep speaking up, keep showing up, and keep doing things that actually make a difference, nothing will change."  Tracy Crossley

#64: Earned Wisdom for Female Leaders! Power, Control & The Truth Behind Wealth

What happens when unchecked power is handed to a select few without oversight? In this special episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, financial expert and founder of WealthClinic, expose how billionaires are gaining unprecedented control over financial systems and personal data—without public consent. 

The question isn’t left or right—it’s about power, secrecy, and who really benefits.

Tracy and Leisa break down the hidden risks of billionaires “fixing” the system. It’s time to stop waiting for a savior and start asking the hard questions.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How billionaires are quietly reshaping finance, privacy, and government.
• Why trusting the ultra-rich to “fix the system” is a dangerous illusion.
• The deeper impact of financial control on social programs and daily life.
• How to reclaim awareness and stop handing over your power.

"The highest form of ignorance is rejecting what you don’t know." – Tracy Crossley