Earned Wisdom! For Accomplished Leaders

#66: Does the Patriarchal System Help?

Patriarchy gets tossed around a lot.

The system was made by men for men who wanted to hold onto their possessions.

It has been this way for thousands of years.  We’ve been conditioned to believe success means fitting into a structure that wasn’t made for women. 

If it actually worked, why are so many people burned out, stressed, and still fighting for a seat at the table? In this episode of Earned Wisdom, Tracy Crossley breaks down how the patriarchal system keeps women stuck and how to change it.

It’s not about fighting harder—it’s about seeing the game for what it is and choosing a different way. You don’t need permission to redefine success, leadership, or power. You just need to stop believing in a system that will never work for you.

What You’ll Learn:

• Does anyone really benefit from the system?
• Patriarchal structures fuel burnout, competition, and emotional suppression
• Women are the way forward applying new meaning to success and leadership 
• Your power to create a movement for yourself and generations to come.

"The system doesn’t hold you back—believing in it does." ~ Tracy Crossley

#65: Earned Wisdom for Female Leaders! Breaking the Patriarchy’s Grip on Women’s Rights

Women make up more than half the population, yet we’re still not in the U.S. Constitution, and power remains out of reach for many. In this episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, a financial expert, author, and advocate for economic empowerment, expose the hidden forces keeping women from true equality—systemic barriers, cultural conditioning, and the illusion of progress.

This isn’t about blame; it’s about action. If we want real change, we have to see the system for what it is and decide what we’re going to do about it.

Key Takeaways:

• Why women still don’t have full constitutional rights
• How internalized patriarchy keeps women competing, not uniting
• The real reason power remains male-dominated
• What it takes to drive real, lasting change

“Unless we keep speaking up, keep showing up, and keep doing things that actually make a difference, nothing will change."  Tracy Crossley

#64: Earned Wisdom for Female Leaders! Power, Control & The Truth Behind Wealth

What happens when unchecked power is handed to a select few without oversight? In this special episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, financial expert and founder of WealthClinic, expose how billionaires are gaining unprecedented control over financial systems and personal data—without public consent. 

The question isn’t left or right—it’s about power, secrecy, and who really benefits.

Tracy and Leisa break down the hidden risks of billionaires “fixing” the system. It’s time to stop waiting for a savior and start asking the hard questions.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How billionaires are quietly reshaping finance, privacy, and government.
• Why trusting the ultra-rich to “fix the system” is a dangerous illusion.
• The deeper impact of financial control on social programs and daily life.
• How to reclaim awareness and stop handing over your power.

"The highest form of ignorance is rejecting what you don’t know." – Tracy Crossley

#63: Lady, you have what it takes! Beat the System

It’s what you know. It’s a system that may take you years to see how it is set up for a small group. You, me and every other woman no matter the race, religion or creed doesn’t operate at the top of the system no matter how fantastic of a leader you happen to be.  

I know if you are listening, you are not a victim to the system, because being a victim means helpless to change. That’s not what we are going for, understanding how it currently hobbles along doesn’t work for many.

Today, I am sharing from a historical and present day perspective. From wealth disparities to the “in your face” societal norms, nod your head along to how it perpetuates inequality and has us feeling guilty or ashamed while trying to chase down the feeling of success.

It isn’t about blame—it’s about clarity. You’ll gain insight into the unseen forces shaping your beliefs, relationships, and self-worth to change the balance of power.

Key Takeaways:

• How the patriarchal system is a cycle. 
• If it works so well, why the fear, inequality, and mental health struggles?
• Who are the societal metrics of success for?
• Chip away the generational bias on wealth, politics, and education..

"The highest form of ignorance is rejecting what you don’t know."

~ Tracy Crossley

#62: What is a Patriarchal Mom?

You may not realize you were born into a system. One that doesn’t look at you as an individual. Taught from a young age values that may not work for you. Join me as we talk about the pressures of a mother in a patriarchal society, how does she lead or is she only a follower? Many get a mixed message leaving them overwhelmed and disconnected.

The expectations placed on women erode personal identity, create loneliness, and a cycle of helplessness (even if you cannot see it)—women are leaders, it’s time to reclaim your power, set boundaries, and redefine what it means to thrive in motherhood and beyond.

Key Insights from this Episode:

• The unrealistic expectations and approval-seeking behaviors mothers face.
• How patriarchal norms lead to a loss of identity and isolation.
• The invisible rules that dictate behavior and breaking free from them.
• Learn to trust yourself, build genuine connections, and prioritize self-care.

Take the first step toward rewriting your story and embracing your authentic self. Listen now!

"Where are you giving your power away? Stop doing it, but don’t stop it and blame others—instead, recognize you haven’t been taking care of yourself and start respecting your own space." ~ Tracy Crossley

#61: Girls Raised on Patriarchy

Are you an accomplished female leader who feels like you're constantly swimming against the tide? You're not alone. In this episode, we're peeling back the layers of societal conditioning that have shaped our experiences as women in a patriarchal world.

Feel like you're constantly swimming against the tide? Always trying to keep your head above water? You might be really good at it, you're not alone. Let’s talk about peeling back the layers of societal conditioning that have shaped our experiences as women in a patriarchal world.

I'm tackling the often-overlooked impact of patriarchy on females raised in this system. Especially those of us who lead.

 It's time to shine a light on the unconscious indoctrination that's been passed down through generations, affecting how we view ourselves and our capabilities.

Unraveling the Patriarchal Tapestry

• The subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways girls are taught to prioritize men's needs
• How societal expectations shape our self-esteem and decision-making
• The lingering effects of historical gender roles on modern women
• The challenges of breaking free from ingrained beliefs

Pay attention to what you say, what you do, and what it feels like in your body. When you feel it in your body, you're going to know, am I standing for myself or am I against myself? ~ Tracy Crossley

#60: What the F is a Patriarchal Society

Exhausted? 

As accomplished female leaders, we've climbed the ladder of success.

But what is this ladder? Besides making a living, what is the motivation? Inside of a patriarchal system, your motivation is often not your own. Join Tracy, as she is peeling back the layers to examine the patriarchal system.

People talk about breaking it down, fighting it or just complaining about it. In this first episode focused on patriarchal systems, let’s see what it means as an ingrained social structure. From boardrooms to living rooms, let’s look at the ways patriarchy shapes our world.

Let’s question the status quo and change the order!

Key Takeaways from this episode:

• The hidden nature of patriarchal structures
• Recognize how this affects women's opportunities and experiences
• Learn to identify and challenge unconscious biases
• Take action toward equality and balance in leadership 
• Be part of the solution in creating a more equitable world

#59: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! with Antonia Bowring

Join Tracy as she speaks with Antonia Bowring, a top executive coach specializing in helping neurodiverse leaders. The episode explores Antonia’s journey from working in development and non-profits to becoming an executive coach. They discuss the challenges of navigating careers, understanding personal purpose, and the importance of both transactional and transformational growth in leadership. 

 

Four Key Takeaways:

• You Are Enough: Embrace self-worth while striving for personal growth.
• Align Work with Purpose: Find meaning in your career by connecting it to your values.
• Learn from Failure: Setbacks offer valuable lessons for personal and professional growth.
• Assume Positive Intent: Approach others with trust to simplify relationships and reduce stress.

"I wish that every woman realized that you are enough, just how you are. And from that one truth, so much good can spring." ~ Antonia Bowring

#58: I always take care of everyone else, where do I find balance?

You can do it all! But how hard do you make it for yourself? Moving from scarcity to an abundance mindset can bring prosperity, but you know what else? It makes you less angry, tired and resentful.

 

Even with career success, many struggle with an inner voice saying they don't deserve it or things have to be hard. Tracy shares her personal journey working through money fears and limiting beliefs. Though accomplishments stacked up, an underlying feeling of "when will I lose this?" persisted.

Realizing your relationship with scarcity is important, it can expand what's possible. There's enough for us all. Dig deeper into abundance mindset shifts - tune in today.

 

In this episode, listeners will: 

• It’s not just law of attraction; get the difference  of scarcity vs. abundance 
• Identify childhood roots of scarcity 
• Learn to move from survival to growth mode 
• Gain tools to align conscious desires and subconscious beliefs
• Discover how to stop self-sabotage for good

"When I became able to respect myself and have that level of confidence because I'm alive, it really did change things." ~ Tracy Crossley

 

#57: Earned Wisdom for Accomplished Female Leaders! With Barbara Mason

Join Tracy as she chats with Barbara Mason, a former corporate powerhouse turned successful entrepreneur. Barbara reveals the secrets behind developing top-tier teams that drive business growth and foster a positive workplace culture. She created an optimal work-life balance for herself and her employees.

 

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Making a smooth transition from corporate to entrepreneurship
• Master the art of building high-performing teams
• Overcome imposter syndrome and step into your full potential as a woman leader
• Embrace the importance of work-life balance for sustained success.
• Learn strategies for retaining high-performance teams

Remember your why. Remember why you started your business and what your goals are. That is the North Star.

~ Barbara Mason